signs you're getting dumped

5 Signs You’re About to Get Dumped

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  • mscheevious

    Well said Chiara!  That one thing that aches more than anything – seeing something or someone we love unravel before our eyes.  Ich…  I like that last part though.  Don’t sit around counting the hints.  Be proactive on behalf of yourself.  You are the only one who can.  Thanks for the post!  Sharing! 

    • http://www.chiarasays.com Chiara Mazzucco

      Thank you for sharing! And yes.. being proactive is the only way… letting life rape you is not the best way of utilizing your time and energy. We hang on this dying relationship, fearing the outcome, when we could be using that time to heal and prepare for the next adventure!

  • Lisa Jey Davis

    Haven’t we all been there?  So few find their forever love right outta the gate.  I think it’s safe to say none, in fact.  Why are we so neurotic about it all?  LOL

    • http://www.chiarasays.com Chiara Mazzucco

      I don’t know.. but it’s giving me a career. So i’m a fan of the chaos. :)

  • http://twitter.com/DirtyInPublic Dirty In Public

    Nothing makes you feel more helpless than watching someone you love fall out of love with you. I think it’s not that people don’t see the signs it’s that they choose to ignore them! Akin to hiding overdue bills a drawer; if I don’t look at them, they don’t exist. But the bill always comes due at some point! 
    Your advice to speak-up, let go of what doesn’t want to be held, and move on is perfect! Thanks for another great post!

    • http://www.chiarasays.com Chiara Mazzucco

      Thank you for reading (and sharing).. and yes.. watching someone fall out of love of you is the saddest, scariest, most suffocating feeling ever.. but ignoring the situation doesn’t make it go away *and believe me, I’ve tried to ignore those bills. And paying the late fees is the crappiest part!

  • http://twitter.com/chefomeo C FO

    Total denial and running away from all these issues ended my relationship, if I had read this a week ago maybe I would have still been in a relationship.  But as it were, this is totally true… unfortunately.  

    • http://www.chiarasays.com Chiara Mazzucco

      (Asshole) I’m sorry. The only reason I know all this is because it happened to me too, unfortunately. You’ll be armed for a better tomorrow.

  • http://twitter.com/Talk2Q Q

    I’ve always wondered if a person who is about to be dumped can rally and reverse the process.  Once you’re on the chopping block, there’s no governor’s phone call to pardon you, is there?  It seems that when a person’s mind is made up that it would be difficult to change it.  Then again, if the outfit is sexy enough…