ASK CHIARA: He has a small penis! HELP!
Q: Hey Chiara, I know you don’t really do sex advice but I figured this was worth a shot. I met this guy a few months ago and we really, really, really hit it off. At the beginning I thought he was seeing someone else because every time our night ended, I tried to get him to come in.. but he’d always bolt. A few nights ago we were making out in his car and before he realized it my hand was down his pants and he froze. It’s like, really small. He made up an excuse and dropped me off. SO AWKWARD! Haven’t heard from him since. HELP!
I’m pretty sure this has happened to everyone – both males (having the small penises) and females (finding them). There isn’t anything you can do about a small penis; no magic potion, herbal supplements and no Austin Powers Penis Pumps exist. Good news is, a guy with a small penis, who isn’t ashamed of it, could actually rock your world if he wanted to.
Ok – penis can’t be changed. That means, you’re going to have to get to work on his confidence.
Be Honest – Can You Hang?
Before you take a step forward, ask yourself and your vagina this: Is this REALLY okay for me?
As I mentioned above, a small package could seriously do magic tricks in between the sheets. So as long as you are open to that and are genuinely comfortable with him, this could work. If you’re trying to pity fuck the guy or give yourself a pat on the back for something you consider an act of charity, stop right now. There are no medals handed to women who shag little penises.
To Talk About it or Not?
You have a couple of options for the next step: The first may not work for everyone:
So, about your penis. It’s okay. I like it. It’ll fit perfectly inside my tiny vagina. Shall we give it a shot?
This might not work in your situation. My advice? Call him and nonchalantly ask him out again. If you’re balsy, saying something about continuing where you left off will give him the vibe that you’re okay with what he’s packing and that you were enjoying where it was headed (even after the awkward discovery).
If he suddenly comes back after his little ego hiatus and you somehow end up between the sheets, show no hesitation and continue to be vocal when he does things that turn you on.
It’s all about his confidence. Get it up and it’ll get you off.
If you’re not okay with the size of his penis, please, do the both of you’s a favor and walk the fuck away. A large penis can be a lethal weapon, especially dangerous in the hands of someone who doesn’t know how to use it.
The smallest of packages can trigger the biggest explosions if wired correctly. And when it comes to sex.. confidence is all it takes.
Did I miss anything? Let’s discuss!!