There’s one thing that stands between you and a happy, healthy relationship: wishful thinking.
When you’re single, you aim for a predefined perfection that doesn’t exist; When you’re dating, you pretend things are better than they are; And when it’s over, you refuse to let go and accept reality.
This book is about identifying these delusions,stripping them down, and coming face to face with reality.
When love doesn’t show you what you want to see, you do whatever it takes to change it. But instead of getting proactive and building the life you deserve, you get delusional and settle for the one you have.
When it comes to love, the only advice worth listening to is the raw, uncensored truth. How else are you supposed to move on from a cheating lover or a manipulative leech? Throw away everything else and learn to finally take control of your love life.
Inside you will find:
• The different types of cheaters and how to deal with them
• Learning to deal with your biggest enemy: yourself
• How to stop obsessing over an ex
• A guide to breaking up
…and much, much more!
Whether you’re single, dating, or getting over a bad break up, The 9 Mirages of Love: How to Stop Chasing What Doesn’t Exist is the last relationship guide you will ever need.
Isn’t it time someone strips the sugarcoat and tells you how it is?
“Are you in a relationship but not quite happy and unsure what to do? Are you recently the casualty of heartbreak and just looking for answers? Written by Chiara Mazzucco, The 9 Mirages of Love is a book primarily targeted to a female audience. While it details…Read more ” - A Man’s Pursuit
“Hey girls just a quick post today for the weekend. If you’re looking for love or wanting to optimize the relationship you’re already in go check out one of my favorite hot girl bloggers out there who is refreshingly real and generous with her relationship advice: Chiara (pronounced Key-Are-Ah) of…Read more“ – 365 Day Girl
“Oh love! You’re damned if you do, damned if you don’t. Whether you’re single or in a relationship or just going through a breakup, the games of the heart always baffle and confuse. I can’t tell you how many times I have wished for a love guide of some sort, someone to tell me the truth as it is, someone who’d make me see what I was too afraid to admit, someone like Chiara of ChiaraSays.com! Chiara Mazzucco is…Read more” – All Women Stalk
“The 9 Mirages of Love is a straight-forward guide to disillusionment for all those love-sick, fairy tale ending types. If, however, you are tired of unfulfilling relationships, this just might be the “reality slap” you need! Chiara has a no-holds-barred attitude when it comes to love, and she puts it out there with humor, honesty, and a slightly naughty diction. She is the ultimate girlfriends’ girlfriend. Listing the obstacles to a truly healthy relationship, Chiara mixes in humorous metaphors with noteworthy insight. Beginning with “you are your own biggest enemy” and ending with “love is not a punishment,” she leads you through the most common delusional thinking regarding love, like the “love is all rainbows and butterflies” myth. The 9 Mirages of Love teaches us that love doesn’t make any sense, but with Chiara’s heartfelt missives…Read more” – Literary R&R
“On Friday, the sassy and a little naughty Los Angeles based Chiara of the relationship blogChiarasays.com sent me her latest book The 9 Mirages of Love to read, and I promptly poured myself a glass of wine, curled up with my ipad and read the whole thing straight through. Fast forward to Saturday, and I’ve already…Read more” – WeLoveDates.com
“Well Chiara Mazzucco’s debut book is definitely worthy of a read. If you’ve ever read her popular blog Chiara Says or are a frequenter as I am, then you know she is a straight-shooting, often…Read more” – Maneaters
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